Cute, smart and driven.  So as I went down the path of making certain commitments and getting her going on a path of accomplishing some of her dreams something went horribly, horribly wrong.  

Since I made my resources available to help her realize her dreams I thought it wouldn’t be a problem for us to hang out from time to time.  No pressure, no commitments.  Let’s just have some fun and do some cool stuff.  So a trip to the mountains to do some rafting didn’t appeal to her because it was during a religious holiday.  Mind you she never went to church during the time I knew her so I was unclear on her rational but okay.  So how about a month later we will go to a beach resort for a week and hang out.  Well that didn’t work for her because she was in school that week (the school I’m paying for mind you).  So to that I said fine I’ll do both trips alone.  Okay, was her response.  So wouldn’t you know it, I met someone during that trip to the mountains who loves rafting, goes to church regularly but didn’t have a problem with that weekend and also was available to go away to the beach resort.  Tough luck!  I’m now hanging out with her and not the one in the picture who just couldn’t seem to find time for anything more than visiting Western Union to pick up the money I sent her